Though most people hardly believe that people still fall in love at first sight and those that want to believe attribute the rare occurence to either the fame or wealth of either of the guy or lady, or lust one of them have for the other. You find guys and ladies try to show to the best of their knowledge that they have over the years learned a thing or two on how to show etiquettes that will surely get them that gentleman or beautiful lady, but here you come across some guys and ladies that don't just care and yet that does not stop the opposite sex from falling in love with them.
The way the guy tries to ask the lady out
Ladies are wiser now, before it use to be that if a guy must ask a lady out he must have tutored himself on the act of sweet talking and blandishing a lady to make her believe he is the next good thing after christmas. current happenings as shown that ladies that want to engage themselves in a serious relationship avoid guyz adroits in this pattern of asking a lady out, to them, the guy must be a player and most of the time this is always the case. ladies want it to come natural and not the stylish adoption of some catch phrase or pick-up line, they understand that the guy may be under some tension or lack some confidence talking to ladies or perhaps his first time, and would want to give him a chance to see out it goes. so guys, make it natural, unless you have a clandestine motive( you know what i mean na, you guys)
A guy or lady that doesn't notice you or almost wouldn't exchange greatings with you
In your workplace, learning institution, neighboorhood, or a particular gathering you both see often, he or she wouldn't even see you coming or going, not that you are not beautiful, handsome, wealthy, in-short this is hardly the case, every other person want to great you - to them their entire world revolves around you, or be the first to exchange etiquette with you, you are the cynosure of all eyes to everyone but him or her, you are almost forced to want to talk to him or her, if not for one thing, but to know why he or she have not been showing you all the paprazzi others would, on doing this, you would or may find out that he or she may even be the best friend you have not found, most of the time this kind of relationship grow to be the envy of many, because it wasn't sparked by material or other ephemeral thing. Just check around you, it's always the least expected lady that the guy goes for, the one that wasn't all around him like a beehive.
A guy that hardly talks and hardly available
some guys get this wrong, they go all the way to make a lady laugh - even if it will make them a momentary clown, all in the name of pleasing a lady. It is that guy that hardly talks to a lady most of the time, that hardly mutter a word, that they want to become friends with, to them, he is an undiscovered planet. The worst part of it is that the guy may not be the always present one, that spends his time with the lady. to some ladies, being too available may make a guy worthless and over-familiarity kills, they want to try the unavailabe, no wonder, scarce goods have more price and value placed on them.
This is my opinion, and wouldn't mind if you disagree, but be mature about it!
Is your current relationship or any you've seen as a result of a strange etiquette, different from the usual, share with us.
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