Tuesday 29 November 2016

THE FESTIVE SEASON IS HERE AGAIN, BUYING GUIDE - AVOID ALL THIS IF YOU DON’T WANT TO BE REGRETFUL.

THE FESTIVE SEASON IS HERE AGAIN, BUYING GUIDE -  AVOID ALL THIS IF YOU DON’T WANT TO BE REGRETFUL.


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Don’t Branch Into That Shop Extemporaneously, Yes Don’t!

You are on your way home, perhaps from work or an event and here you are staring at this beautiful apparel that is just too good to resist, YES! It’s tempting, it may even be the only one that has ever been made, the world over. You may go in there and buy if the year has been so bountiful to you, but if you are watching your purse or wallet, check into the place make enquiry, then you can come back if it can fit into your budget for the season, remember next year is just few days away.

Who Have You Gone To Shop Around With?

Though we hardly know why this recession period is being unfair by leaving some people out, you have to ask yourself where you stand, if that is answered, then you should know the kind of person you go to shop around with, if you don’t want to buy only one thing from morning till dawn, or clothe that you won’t have the shoe to wear it with or probably find out that you have exhausted your budget while you are still on item no. 3 with 5 more item to go. Some friends that have never bought anything on their own, except those bought by that biggest boy in town or those that know where to buy cool recently used ones - bend down select will suddenly be your fashion consultant, choose a friend that doesn't Live a fake life.

Make A List Based On Their Priority And Follow It!

Its not everyone that loves shopping on line and when you intend to buy anything get a price or at least a price range attached to every item you want, your purse or money in the bank may not run dry – thanks to POS, but you would have spent far beyond your expectation, perhaps you may get home only to discover that you left out some things, then your shopping will continue the next day.

Always Go To A Market You Know To An Appreciable Extent

Don’t just wake up one beautiful morning and decide to go to a market you don’t know how it operate, warning! You are not going to a tourist destination for leisure and relaxation, it’s the ultimate shopping experience. I was in a market doing my shopping and this man came in with a guy that he picked inside the market to be his shopping guide – little does he know that the guy has got commission on every goods bought by anyone he brings in, an apparel I bought 12,000 Nigerian Naira, he both same 15k, also considering the time you may waste going to this market and probably your inability to locate the right places for each type of goods, avoid doing this!

Always buy from a trusted Business Entity

A brand that have a lot of its standard and quality to maintain will avoid at all cost to see its name tarnished by selling substandard or cloned product. You may think you have bought it real cheap only for you to discover that it’s the cloned one, shame will not allow you to wear it to any event or even uploading on Instagram, snap chat or any social media. You may not even worry yourself about how to know the fake ones if you are going to buy from a brand with strong reputation of quality.

DO’S AND DON’T WHEN BUYING

Don’t pay before you have been giving the goods you may pay twice, due to the rush
Don’t burden yourself with too many bags you may forget one and probably won’t remember where it fell, use two bags at most.
Don’t tell the shop assistant or sales person to choose what’s best for you, he/she will probably choose the one that is going to make them more profit or the one that have stayed too long in the shelf.
Don’t bring your gadget, phone, wallet with you while shopping you may drop one or two of it mistakenly when you are immersed in your shopping spree.
Try as much as possible not to make it easily noticeable that you don’t know what you are buying, the seller will be afraid to bring a fake one to you and you won’t overpay.
Happy festive season ahead.

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Thursday 24 November 2016

WHEN YOU SEE ALL THIS SIGN, KNOW THAT WHAT YOU HAVE IS NOT LEADING TO MARRIAGE - AT BEST, BABYMAMA

WHEN YOU SEE ALL THIS, KNOW THAT YOUR BEST BET IS A BABY MAMA
Have you wondered why the recent trend of young ladies and even adult becoming latest baby mama in town and yet we keep getting avalanche of pre-wedding pictures and wedding pictures? The answer is not farfetched! The only problem is that it is either love or lust have convoluted your ability to decipher the shenanigans and grift in your relationship. Don't impugn this opinion, only just see through the truth and you may see the lies you have been living with.



 
What is it that attract you to him?

If you are a lady and you've not asked this short but powerful question to see how best it will be answered, then know that you are still having revelry with the guy. when you start hearing answers that don't exceed, you are beautiful, your smile, your legs, the way you talk on phone, blablabla, just know that they are all horseplay - even a person you meet today can tell you all this. but when he goes further to things that involves deeper and thought provoking answers, like things you may be doing or good at that you yourself may or may not know, then you have his heart beat.

He has never shown interest about visiting your family
 
Sounds almost familiar ba? to you, you believe it's has not been intentional, you can defend him with your last blood simply because you love him, love ke? He keeps coming up with countless uncanny excuses and almost reasonable doubt that have been impeding his heart desire to visit your family. sister, make up your mind, sit him down, tell him it is either now or never! it is the least he is expected to do, if there is going to be a future or growth whatsoever for the relationship. unless you yourself want nothing more than one night stands. your family will know him when he makes you a single mama!

He has everything going for him, but marriage is not an option yet

Shout out to all the ladies out there that have stayed 7 years and above dating a guy, you all deserve all the kudos available on earth! have you tried to know what his fears are? what is his plan? there's no wrong in asking a guy this questions, time wait for no one! your being with him is an hindrance to other serious suitor. are you that complicated that 5 years is not enough to observe that you are a good enough to be wife material? year in, year out, no engagement, no introduction, nothing and you still they wait for change.

When He talks about the kind of lady he wishes to marry

Are you dumbfounded? I was with two lovebird recently, when the guy was there in front of her so called soul mate describing his dream wife, the lady was just there smiling, I almost wanted to conclude that the lady may be under some influence beyond her power. when the ideal future wife description of your so called lover are not inherent in you, know that it is time to move on.

what will be his reason when out of reach for a while

If he is out of reach for a while and you decide to inquire and the only reason he could point out is that he has been busy, forget story! No guy that is truly in love will be so busy not to remember to call the person that make him or her complete. or he try to convince you that he does not deserve you, hmmm, guys go for people that they don't deserve if possible, that one na exit strategy, don't force yourself on him.

He keeps Forgetting your important dates

Forget birthday, that can be seen as a reminder on social media, what about other important dates that relates to your career, social commitment, etc. does he have you in mind.

He doesn't share little or big detail about his plans and career

Inasmuch as people try as much as possible to make discreet their financial status, but there is suppose to be some exemptions with someone you can trust your life with, if this is the case, if a guy trust you and have in his future plan you will sure know some details about his plans.

His he proud to be seen with you in public?

Don't be deceived, there is nothing like I don't like the public to know about my relationship with you, you may not be able to hide it when you become a baby mama, your guy should be proud to be seen with you. some people only do this when they have clandestine motive in a relationship. at least we knew about some major artist baby mamas when the deal has been stamped and delivered. Most of the time the baby mama is not even considered good enough for marriage as seen in marriage trends involving celebs.

Everything you do is just fine with him

Life is not always a bed of roses, and so is relationships. when relationship is too peaceful, fear that relationship, the best bet is a baby mama at most. Someone is just waiting to get what he wants then prepare a break up strategy. Someone that thinks they is a future with you will always bring up issues and habits that he want you to walk on, though there is a limit to this - it must not be always. showing tolerance is good, but there is also a limit.

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Tuesday 22 November 2016

HOW DID IT HAPPEN! GOLDBERG OVERWHEMINGLY DEFEATS BROCK LESNAR - THE BEASTS

It never occurred to most WWE lovers that it was possible, the beast - brock lesnar, looked like he was going to make life miserable for Goldberg, but he showed him, that he has all it takes. the November survivor series showed that Goldberg still got it going for him, no one imagined that he won the match in less than 2 minutes. he just only recently announced that he will be fighting in the 2017 royal rumble, what are we to expect?

strange deviance from etiquette that attract a lady and a guy, that makes you wonder!


Though most people hardly believe that people still fall in love at first sight and those that want to believe attribute the rare occurence to either the fame or wealth of either of the guy or lady, or lust one of them have for the other. You find guys and ladies try to show to the best of their knowledge that they have over the years learned a thing or two on how to show etiquettes that will surely get them that gentleman or beautiful lady, but here you come across some guys and ladies that don't just care and yet that does not stop the opposite sex from falling in love with them.




The way the guy tries to ask the lady out
Ladies are wiser now, before it use to be that if a guy must ask a lady out he must have tutored himself on the act of sweet talking and blandishing a lady to make her believe he is the next good thing after christmas. current happenings as shown that ladies that want to engage themselves in a serious relationship avoid guyz adroits in this pattern of asking a lady out, to them, the guy must be a player and most of the time this is always the case. ladies want it to come natural and not the stylish adoption of some catch phrase or pick-up line, they understand that the guy may be under some tension or lack some confidence talking to ladies or perhaps his first time, and would want to give him a chance to see out it goes. so guys, make it natural, unless you have a clandestine motive( you know what i mean na, you guys)





A guy or lady that doesn't notice you or almost wouldn't exchange greatings with you
In your workplace, learning institution, neighboorhood, or a particular gathering you both see often, he or she wouldn't even see you coming or going, not that you are not beautiful, handsome, wealthy, in-short this is hardly the case, every other person want to great you - to them their entire world revolves around you, or be the first to exchange etiquette with you, you are the cynosure of all eyes to everyone but him or her, you are almost forced to want to talk to him or her, if not for one thing, but to know why he or she have not been showing you all the paprazzi others would, on doing this, you would or may find out that he or she may even be the best friend you have not found, most of the time this kind of relationship grow to be the envy of many, because it wasn't sparked by material or other ephemeral thing. Just check around you, it's always the least expected lady that the guy goes for, the one that wasn't all around him like a beehive.



A guy that hardly talks and hardly available
some guys get this wrong, they go all the way to make a lady laugh - even if it will make them a momentary clown, all in the name of pleasing a lady. It is that guy that hardly talks to a lady most of the time, that hardly mutter a word, that they want to become friends with, to them, he is an undiscovered planet. The worst part of it is that the guy may not be the always present one, that spends his time with the lady. to some ladies, being too available may make a guy worthless and over-familiarity kills, they want to try the unavailabe, no wonder, scarce goods have more price and value placed on them.

This is my opinion, and wouldn't mind if you disagree, but be mature about it!

Is your current relationship or any you've seen as a result of a strange etiquette, different from the usual, share with us.

 

Monday 21 November 2016

The N-Power first batch 200,000 selected persons list is out, what's next?

The Job scheme N-Power list of selected applicant out and can be checked on https://portal.npower.gov.ng/apply/selected.php.




Firstly, let me use this medium to thank the Federal government of Nigeria, for making true their campaign promise of empowering unemployed youth through the N-power program. in, particular, the vice-president, Prof. Yemi Osinbajo, for his consistent re-assurance that there will be a clear difference from what's obtainable when it comes to employment procedure and selection in Nigeria.

But there is more that we can do! there is more the government can do, though Nigerians have been shown that a massive employment of this nature can be done without lost of lives as recorded by the previous govt. and that everyone from each geopolitical zone in Nigeria can be given equal opportunity in the selection process and a transparent process at that. Let us forget the rhetoric that the big Jobs - FIRS, NPA, CBN, NRC, and so on, will and have been given to the elite - this has always been the norm in Nigeria and that will not change soon, until corruption has been fully dis-institutionalized.

WHAT NEXT?

What's the need for a Job or career that does not lead you through your desired career path, Inasmuch as, it is a Job that is good for the mean time while graduate keep looking out for opportunities of their dream - we may want to deny this, but majority of those that have been selected have once in their life said they will and can never teach - if they can be sincere. since 150,000 will teach, are they gainfully employed or just having a job and not job satisfaction.

What's the need of a job that may or will never provide savings to help in times of need. faced with an Economy ravaged by high inflation and dwindling foreign exchange. Most of this graduate were sent to the tertiary institution so that there can assist their family reach the promise land and am sure 23,000 or 30,000 may not be enough for them alone, not even considering their family.

The state government should ensure that they won't be problem posting the selected unemployed successfully to their place of assignment and the federal government should ensure prompt payment of their remuneration.

The Federal government need to as a matter of urgency make our Economy better than it was met, so that Industries that are moribund will be resuscitated, and make dollar available for foreign exchange, so that companies that have retrenched their workers will begin to call workers back and they will be better Job for the unemployed to do.

The federal govt. should not relax thinking that this achievement is enough to be seen as a working government. Though, this is better than programs of this nature done by the previous govt. but we trust the government to do more, that's the change Nigerians want and voted for.

Friday 18 November 2016

what will be your reaction when someone is telling you how to make money, big money! in a week and...

What's happening nowadays! You meet a person that uses both legs to walk the street of Lagos and this same person is telling you how to make 15 million naira in a week. Abeg reason am na, do we still have good samaritans like that ?, why does he not want to make the money first.