Have you wondered why the recent trend of young ladies and even adult becoming latest baby mama in town and yet we keep getting avalanche of pre-wedding pictures and wedding pictures? The answer is not farfetched! The only problem is that it is either love or lust have convoluted your ability to decipher the shenanigans and grift in your relationship. Don't impugn this opinion, only just see through the truth and you may see the lies you have been living with.
What is it that attract you to him?
If you are a lady and you've not asked this short but powerful question to see how best it will be answered, then know that you are still having revelry with the guy. when you start hearing answers that don't exceed, you are beautiful, your smile, your legs, the way you talk on phone, blablabla, just know that they are all horseplay - even a person you meet today can tell you all this. but when he goes further to things that involves deeper and thought provoking answers, like things you may be doing or good at that you yourself may or may not know, then you have his heart beat.
He has never shown interest about visiting your family
Sounds almost familiar ba? to you, you believe it's has not been intentional, you can defend him with your last blood simply because you love him, love ke? He keeps coming up with countless uncanny excuses and almost reasonable doubt that have been impeding his heart desire to visit your family. sister, make up your mind, sit him down, tell him it is either now or never! it is the least he is expected to do, if there is going to be a future or growth whatsoever for the relationship. unless you yourself want nothing more than one night stands. your family will know him when he makes you a single mama!
He has everything going for him, but marriage is not an option yet
Shout out to all the ladies out there that have stayed 7 years and above dating a guy, you all deserve all the kudos available on earth! have you tried to know what his fears are? what is his plan? there's no wrong in asking a guy this questions, time wait for no one! your being with him is an hindrance to other serious suitor. are you that complicated that 5 years is not enough to observe that you are a good enough to be wife material? year in, year out, no engagement, no introduction, nothing and you still they wait for change.
When He talks about the kind of lady he wishes to marry
Are you dumbfounded? I was with two lovebird recently, when the guy was there in front of her so called soul mate describing his dream wife, the lady was just there smiling, I almost wanted to conclude that the lady may be under some influence beyond her power. when the ideal future wife description of your so called lover are not inherent in you, know that it is time to move on.
what will be his reason when out of reach for a while
If he is out of reach for a while and you decide to inquire and the only reason he could point out is that he has been busy, forget story! No guy that is truly in love will be so busy not to remember to call the person that make him or her complete. or he try to convince you that he does not deserve you, hmmm, guys go for people that they don't deserve if possible, that one na exit strategy, don't force yourself on him.
He keeps Forgetting your important dates
Forget birthday, that can be seen as a reminder on social media, what about other important dates that relates to your career, social commitment, etc. does he have you in mind.
He doesn't share little or big detail about his plans and career
Inasmuch as people try as much as possible to make discreet their financial status, but there is suppose to be some exemptions with someone you can trust your life with, if this is the case, if a guy trust you and have in his future plan you will sure know some details about his plans.
His he proud to be seen with you in public?
Don't be deceived, there is nothing like I don't like the public to know about my relationship with you, you may not be able to hide it when you become a baby mama, your guy should be proud to be seen with you. some people only do this when they have clandestine motive in a relationship. at least we knew about some major artist baby mamas when the deal has been stamped and delivered. Most of the time the baby mama is not even considered good enough for marriage as seen in marriage trends involving celebs.
Everything you do is just fine with him
Life is not always a bed of roses, and so is relationships. when relationship is too peaceful, fear that relationship, the best bet is a baby mama at most. Someone is just waiting to get what he wants then prepare a break up strategy. Someone that thinks they is a future with you will always bring up issues and habits that he want you to walk on, though there is a limit to this - it must not be always. showing tolerance is good, but there is also a limit.
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