I find it very apt at
this point to reveal these characteristics to our ladies who will have to make
tough decisions going forward and will want it to be the best option that won’t
end up a daily regret. We find it hard to believe that a beautiful lady and
sometimes very successful in their career with a great personality that every
man should be proud to introduce to their friends and family as their wife,
will not even be proposed to talk more of being married. These are the attribute
peculiar to this kind of Ladies that are in this class. Avoid all this if you don’t
want to tell people that you never wanted to get married at a particular stage
of your life.
1.
THEIR SOCIAL LIFE IS AT THE TWO EXTREME END OF
TOO MUCH AND TOO LITTLE OR NON-EXISTENT
Too much of everything
they say is never good. When it comes to the social life of a lady guys that
have intention of marrying them never take it for granted. When a lady goes out clubbing and partying
all the time and finds it as a major source of her happiness it makes it hard
for a guy to want to settle down with such a lady as he fears the possibility
of the lady finding it difficult to put a stop to that part of their life when
they are married. So also is the case for a lady who has little or no social
life, this kind will be seen to be an impediment to a fun filled social life
when they are married. A Guy want to do some of those things he does when he was
still single – albeit those that won’t make him become a cheating husband and
when he is dating a lady that won’t either join him or allow him, he will never
see a future in their relationship.
2.
THEY WANT EVERYTHING TO GO HAS PLANNED NO ROOM
FOR FLEXIBILITY OR CREATIVITY
If you are a lady and
you still have an unwritten timetable that you read out when your guy is about
proposing an outing or a place to catch fun know that you are becoming
spontaneous and having an uneventful life. I have always said it that spontaneity
is the major cause of divorce in every relationship. When two married people do
the same thing every time and place, they quickly get bored and comb their mind
of how to get out if their current predicament. So no guy will want to tie the knot to an impending
disaster that kills the marriage faster even with kids involved.
3.
THEY ARE ONCE A BABY MAMA GROWING UP
We are in a society where
men want to be the first person that gave a lady her first child and the moment
they see a lady that’s a single mother they find it hard to propose marriage to
her. Most of those in the age gamut of 32 and above that are unmarried have at
one time in their life giving birth to one or two children outside wedlock and which
makes them to be perceived as irresponsible. Some parents have even rejected to
bless and support their son when they present a single mother as their future wife’s.
4.
THEY HAVE AT ONE TIME IN THEIR LIFE WANTED TO
ACHIEVE CAREER SUCCESS FIRST BEFORE THINKING ABOUT MARRIAGE
There is a time for
everything under the sun and when this times and season comes it is also
expected to go. This bracket of ladies has their career plan worked out in
which marriage is not an option until they have achieved these successes. When a
lady will marry cannot be planned because the lady will not marry herself
unless he intends picking up a guy and paying her dowry by herself which have
been done by many and have backfired into a failed marriage because the man
will surely take you for granted.
5.
THEY ARE FAMOUS AND MOSTLY CELEBRITIES
When it’s about a lady
that’s famous I don’t think it’s a fault of theirs but even the famous men of their
status and class do sometimes prefer to look for ladies that they won’t have a
problem to deal with their level of wealth and fame. Ladies that are famous and
are celebrities that are not single at this age bracket married before
attaining the level of fame. The perception towards our celebrities in Nigeria
is very unfair as most of them are seen to live lavish, wasteful and promiscuous
lifestyles and the mention of a celebrity these men take to their heels.
6.
SPENT MAJOR PART OF THEIR DAY AT WORK CLOSING
LATE AT NIGHT IN THEIR LIFETIME
Picture a lady working
for a company she leaves home before day break and arrives almost midnight from
Mondays to Saturday and sometimes Sundays that even her next door neighbour can’t
describe how she looks if the police are on her trail on when she has a visitor.
This kind of ladies are married to their job and will need to first divorce
their marriage with their Job before men will begin to look their way.
7.
REJECTED MEN WHO ARE YET TO BE SUCCESSFUL
Ask most ladies that
are single at 32 and above if they have ever been asked for their hands in
marriage, they will say yes but will look for a lie to cover up that they
rejected on the grounds that they were not ready at that time which is not always
the case. It is mostly a case of them wanting a man that is already rich and
wealthy which sometimes will take them eternity to find because that rich and
famous man may be dating many other ladies too and weighing his options.
8.
ALWAYS IN A RELATIONSHIP BUT WILL LEAVE IT AT
THE SIGHT OF A MORE SUCCESSFUL GUY
This class of single
ladies have never been short of dates as they are always in the market of doing
costly and more mouth watering transfers to the next great guy and are ready to
leave a strong relationship that can lead to marriage at every transfer
windows, which can be akin to what plays out in the European football market
where footballers can live their current club when they receive bids from a
bigger club at a mouth watering fee and can do this as many time as they want
before they retire.
9.
CONCERNED ABOUT WHAT THEIR FRIENDS WILL THINK OF THEIR CHOICE
These ladies will
never give an opportunity to a guy that they can’t brag about to their friends
and make them envious of them when they are gisting. No matter how long it will
take them to see this 21st century or Columbia films production dream
guy, they prefer to remain single. They have the habit of making mockery of
friends of their status and class that settled with not so successful kind of
guy and will dare not want to be at the receiving end and sometimes their pride
won’t let them. They have always wanted a lavish wedding that will put the
world to a standstill and be written about in all lifestyle magazines and will never
see a future in a guy that won’t provide this.
10.
THEY ARE
MOSTLY EGOISTIC, ALL-KNOWING(NEVER CORRIGIBLE), AND NEVER APPRECIATIVE
The final attribute is
the killer, as no guy will want to have two captains in one boat, if a guy can
buy heaven and earth for them they will still be something this kind of lady
will say he hasn’t bought may be this time the moon and the sun. She is also
wiser than King Solomon and will rebuff any idea, suggestion or advise that
comes her way. When they were still teenagers and in their 20’s you will hear
them say I can’t wash my husband’s clothe, I won’t always be in the kitchen
what’s our maid going to be doing and they hardly find it difficult to say
sorry or the person at fault in any disagreement. This entire attribute are the
cause of a woman single at 32 and above.
Have I missed an
important attribute?